Great Power comes with great responsibilities....

It is always being said that "GREAT POWER COMES WITH GREAT RESPONSIBILITIES" and a person using that great power should always be rational and could not be influenced by EVIL elements....and thats the most expected nature of a powerful person...but it is quite often that most of the people holding great power dont behave properly, irrespective of the fact that a a tiny bad decision can destroy the lives of millions or may be billions people...

There are many cases in the history as well as in the today's modern days when a stupid and selfish decision by a dictator or any powerful person results in a total collapse of many civilisations and countries...What i mean when i say a powerful person?? it means that a person who has the capability and capacity to affect the lives of large number of people either in a bad way or good way...Once a person got that status, i think he should be responsible for the goodwill of the group of people who can be affected by his decision....even great and greatest leaders of the world cant claim that they never took a wrong decision.....

Sometimes i think, is it justified to give that much power to a single person?? what happenes when the person becomes selfish, irrational and irresponsible?? Well, its a million dollar question that how much power should be given to a person...

How come a single person can decide the fate of the millions people??...In todays materialistic world when the power of money seems to be the SUPER POWER....which claims to buy each and evrything.....so Who is more powerful....richer or poorer??....its a long time debate how come a person lives in big luxuries house with all the facilities in the same society where thousands of peoples even cant get a hut to live in..... the human insensitivity towards a socially backward people is increasing....the gap between the poorest and richest person in the world is increasing with a faster pace which doesnt seem to be slowed down in near future....why its happening?? the simple answer is MONEY can influence the persons who hold the great powers without any responsibility and favours the policies which helps their financer to be more and more richer...

I dont know how much evilness needed indside a powerful person to take such a harass step which can destroy the livelihood of millions and only favours a few individuals.....well, thats the unanswerable question....

Happiness & Success....

"Happiness - The state in which a man feels happy"...Its completly personal...in other words the term "FEELING" is absolutly personal...its quite difficult to say what is the degree of happiness...for me, whenever i am doing what i like to do, i feel happy...when i meet a person who i like and love, i feel happy...when i get some success i feel happy...and there are many things in which i feel happy either to do that or just to remmebr that....Its something very personal and nobody can generalise it....

People feel happy once they achieve some primary success. "SUCCESS" is a term which is quite bit difficult to analyse...i cant say its completly personal but i think it comes with some sort of relativity...i think its like the different steps of a stair...Once we climb the first step we feel happy and then we think about the other step, we put some extra effort and then climb the second one and then we keep climbing all the steps with all our energy and hard work...the one big difference, i think between stairs and the success in life is that, in case of stairs we know what is our last goal, what we are going to achieve when we climb all the stairs, but in real life we dont know what is the last goal...it always keep changing in the whole life untill we are alive...I am not sure about a life after death.... ha ha...But may be if we have, i think it would be the same...

When i say that success is not completly personal, it means its quite bit personal and social...Sometimes the society defines the meaning of success like if you have lots of money, you are successful...If you have the power, you are successful and many other thing...but i think unless and untill success comes with happiness, it doesnt have any meaning...May be some people says that if you wanna achieve something you have to loose many thing....may be you will become a rich man but you may loose your peace of mind....the main point here is to decide, success at what cost??? Do we need that type of success??? what are the things, we value more??? Thats why i say its "PERSONAL" also...Different people may have different views on it...but i like a success which gives me pleasure and in which i may not loose the things i like and love most...in that case, may be i will not be a well known person in the world but i will be happy with my life....

For me, success on the cost of my happiness is never acceptable....As i feel that life is so uncertain and we are not sure whats going to happen in the next moment...i dont want to loose my happiness...If a person is lucky, he can get both the things together but suppose if you are not so lucky and you spent all your time just to achieve something and at the end of the days once you get that you feel that you lost everything except that success....so i think, the priority in life should be always clear...How much we are willing to loss to achieve something?? and does it really worth??- think over it...

Unlimited...

People always meet many people in everyday life....we forget many people we see everyday but ....Some left their longlasting presence in life just after a first meeting....Is it possible that a complete stranger, whom we dont know, we never meet and also not expecting to meet in future is going to affect that much...

I think thats possible...A man likes to love everything and anything....somebody loves an animal ...somebody loves a tree....somebody loves the natural beauty...the list is unlimited...look, even we love many other objects which is not alive also...so its quite possible that a man loves a person....evenif its complete stranger...

I love to love anything i like....quite bit funny...but thats give me happiness when i see something which i love...sometimes thinking over it, is also enough to bring a cute smile on face...

Life is just spreading LOVE, sharing LOVE and be LOVED by somebody....It has no boundary....

So LOVE....LOVE....and LOVE anything and everything......

Money, money and money...is it everything???

"Money, Money and Money"-Everybody loves to make it...but how much is enough, nobody knows that...there is no limit for that...as much as we earn, the DESIRE to make more always increases...Quite bit tough to decide "HOW MUCH IS ENOUGH FOR MYSELF??"

I feel...money is always necessary for a comfortable life but MONEY is not everything in life...its just something which makes life comfortable but there are many other things also which needs to be present in life....like LOVE, Emotional relations, Friends and many more....people always can argue that once you have money you can get all the other stuff but i am not agree with that...

Its not worth enough to invest your wholelife just running behind "making money"... I believe that Life is not only for running behind anyth which is so materialistic and unfaithful...Most of the things require for a happy life is almost free like True friends, love and it also dont need any money...what it needs?? just a investment of time....which is worthwhile to invest...

Its fair enough that we need some money to carry on our daily necessities but thinking that "Money is everything" is completly absurd...How much money a person should earn is quite bit clear in the words of Kabirdas (a great indian philosopher):

"Sai itna dijiye jaame kutumb samay, main bhi bhukha na rahuin aur sadhu bhi bhukha na jaaye" (in Hindi)

Translated in english- " Hey GOD! Give me only that much in which i can feed my family and myself along with the guest coming to my home"

Life is funny....

Life always takes a new turn...nobody knows when its going to come...Sometimes it gives pleasing experience, sometimes it hurts...but anyway it always continue...nobody can control it but everybody wants to do that...

I think life unfolds itself...when i look back and think about my life, it seems that everything just happened because it had to happen, evenif i tried hard to get away from some of the stuffs but at the end, how hard i try, i became more closer to that...i believe everybody has his own destiny and sooner or later we are going to achieve that...but which way leads to that...who knows???

A few years back i was quite worrying about my life,in which direction it will go...and that time i came in contact with one of my good professors...He was much older than me and i think he has more experience of life than me...i always give respect to my elders and listen their experience very patiently...its always helpful because they already spent more time in this world than me and also have seen many colors of life...i still remember his one sentence...He told me...

"Dont worry niraj, you are still very young and you have to see lot many GOOD or BAD things in coming life. You are fortunate enough to be in this position, many people even cant get that, so just do ur present work with your full capability. Life is very funny, it takes exams always. It always shows you all its colours so just be happy and wait for your time. After some years from now, you even dont remember about today but if you look back you will realise that it just like a unfolded carpet and everything is arranged in a right way for you."......

Today when i was thinking over some stuff, his sentences just popped up in my mind. When i see my past and compare with today's life, i think his words have some great meaning....

Dreamer or realistic??

I always wonder what should be the right way to choose- A life with full of dreams or a life with more realistic view??

Personally, i love to dream alot. I feel completely free in my dreams. I can break all the boundries of my capability, strength and can become anything what i like, can do anything what i like to do. One time i can be the greatest person of the world, another time i can be a great healer, who may have all the supernatural power which can heal the pain of the people. I feel very happy when i am in dream. I love to lost in my dreams. Whenever i feel alone, sad or disappointed with anything, i love to remember my prettiest dream and after a while, i feel refreshed. It gives me an energy which i may have been needed during my difficult times.

If possible, i would always live in my own dreams, but here the other part of life comes, which says me, cool down!!! day dreamer!!! relax and think about the life in which you are living. Is it possible to even think of a tiny part of all the pretty dreams you are talking about?? Be more realistic and think over first what you can do and what you cant do as a person YOU are. First identify yourself. You have a nice family, good job, look at your capabilities first and confined your dreams accordingly. Dont be fool!!!

Everybody wants to do all the good and interesting stuff in life but is the single life is enough to do everything?? Till this age, i feel that personally dreams are pretty and i wont stop dreaming but it would be better if we can realise the real environment too. I cant completly mix or ignore dreams with the reality but its always nice to see "NICE, PREETY and POSITIVE" dreams.

Thats the only thing, i can say completly belongs to me, completly HONEST, TRUSTWORTHY, CUTE, SWEET and lot many more, which is always there for me and give me positive energy when i need it most.

...............KEEP DREAMING..........

With Luv... :) .....